Dream it, then go get it! 

“If you can go there in your mind, you can go there in your body” Being self-confident is about believing in your ability to accomplish your desired goal(s).

Being thankful – the “keystone habit” of daily expression of GRATITUDE can help boost self-confidence, self-belief and self-esteem. 
The practice of gratitude is known to result in higher levels of creativity, optimism, determination, energy level and enthusiasm.
Good morning Girls. It’s a new morning, new day, new week. Find something to be grateful for in your life this morning.

Stay blessed! 


Think success, become successful!! 

“The poorest man in the world is a man without a dream. What we think about is more important than what we do” – Dr Myles Munroe
Cambridge dictionary describes the word THINK as – to belief something, to have a particular opinion or BELIEF, or idea about someone or something. The word think can also be describe as the act of “directing ones mind towards someone or something; the use of ones mind actively to form connected ideas”

Girls, thats why we are told in Prov 23vs 7 that “as a Man thinketh (beliefs) in his heart (mind), so is he. The question i ask myself this morning is Oge what are your thoughts about your family, children, your health, wealth, love life, career, business, that new opportunity ……..??

What do i need to do daily to transform every aspect of my life? Girls , “if we can go there in our mind, we can go there in our body”
Good morning

Positive affirmations are vital for success!! 

“Our subconscious mind is like a huge filling cabinet that stores all pleasant and unpleasant experiences, habits, visual images, information from our past , through birth to childhood and present adult life”
“It’s in our subconscious mind that our habits, character traits, leaned behaviors and beliefs including limiting beliefs are registered having being learnt through REPETITION and PRACTICE.”

“Positive affirmations are phrases which we repeat to ourself which describe how we want to be (desired future state – health, wealth, love , happiness , career……).” 

With constant and deliberate REPETITION (ist thing in the morning & last thing at night), positive affirmations sink into our subconscious mind, change our beliefs and become a self-fulfilling prophesy. “There is power of life and death in our words”(Prov 18vs21)
When put to PRACTICE, our positive affirmations will “over time overwrite any limiting beliefs we have about ourself or about being able to do something, replace them with positive thoughts and beliefs which instill confidence, belief, positivity, ambition and much more”
Girls,  it thus imply that to forgive and release our past, change our thinking, change our habits, change our limiting beliefs, we need to reprogram, renew our hard disc, our auto pilot , our subconscious mind. Transformation requires renewal of our subconscious mind (Romans 12vs2).

Research has shown / proven that we can reprogram / reformat our subconscious by imputing & reinforcing new positive thoughts, positive ideas and positive action via Positive affirmations, visualization & meditation.

“Do something today, invest into your future , change your thinking , change your affirmations, guard the pathway into your subconscious mind.
Have a blind faith, passion, purpose and vision driven day.
Good morning

Believe it, achieve it.. 

The Cambridge dictionary defines the word BELIEVE as – to THINK that something is true, correct or real, to feel sure (emotion, blind faith) of the truth of, to imagine (Visualize). “Therefore whatever you ask for in prayers, believe that you have received it, and it shall be yours. Mark 11vs24 
EXPECTATION is defined / described as: a STRONG BELIEF that something will happen or be the case in the future.
Girls , according to Stephen Covey, we get what we expect both from ourselves and from others. We we expect more, we tend to get more, when we expect less, we tend to get less.

Girls, we have the assurance in Jer 29vs11 that Gods THOUGHTS towards each and everyone of us are thoughts of GOOD (good health, family, children, abundance, good success-wealth, career, business) and not of evil to bring us to an EXPECTED end. Key word is Expected = our expectation.

“The power of expectation (Strong belief) subconsciously controls our life to create self fulfilling prophesies. The expectation of those around us modify our behavior for better, or for worse. Our own expectations can fill us with energy or drive us into despair and despondency” 
Positive expectations provide the drive which energize us into achieving higher goals.\
Girls, we all need to change our thinking, change our beliefs, change our habits, change those we associate with , change our expectation to change our life.
It’s a new morning, new day, new week, new opportunity for us to individually recalibrate our mind and body,revisit of habits and take positive action in our pursuit of sustainable success in our family, career, business, our health, wealth and happiness ………..

Happy Sunday

Good morning

Self esteem for success 

“If you would like to build your self-esteem, remember to love yourself daily”- Louis Hay
According to Mark 12vs31, we are expected to individually Love our neighbor as ourself. 
Girls , when last did you tell yourself , when last did you look into the mirror and tell yourself, (oge/ your name) – I love you, I love you exactly the way you are right now. Hmmmmm……….
The key to starting the process is for us to individually “recognize / realize that self-esteem, self-love , self-worth: whatever you feel drawn to calling it; is a SEED that grows if we WATER” it daily – right thoughts, right affirmations ………

Girls , “we are not defined by the mistakes we make” or have made (forgive and release the past), we have to allow ourself to let go of our negative self-talk, limiting belief and LOVE Ourself
Good morning! 


“As a man thinketh in his heart (deep down in his mind), so is he – Prov23vs7
What we think about, how we individually view ourselves, is more important than what we do.
“Positive self-esteem is one of the most important and basic qualities of a Winning human being. It’s that deep down, inside the self, feeling of your own worth” – Dennis Waitley. It gives us the “strength and flexibility to take charge of our lives and grow from our mistakes and learning experiences”
Girls , “creating a healthy sense of self-esteem starts with discipling our thoughts and our tongue; requires us to cultivate new empowering habits, practice daily positive self-talk (affirmations) and practice gratitude.

Self-esteem affects “nearly every aspect of our life”: affects our trust of others, our relationships, our health, our career…..
As we go into a new morning, new day, new Friday, make the Choice and Decision to practise gratitude , adopt new habits, filter your inner circle of friends and above all have absolute trust in God (Prov 3vs5-6).
God bless and keep you all. Amen

Good morning

Gratitude for success II

In everything (every circumstance, every situation, every experience….), give Thanks – Ist Thes 5vs18
“Grateful thinking promotes the savoring of positive life experiences”. Exceptionally positive minded people all share one thing in common – “an attitude of gratitude”
Girls, expressing gratitude daily and on a continuous basis bolsters self-esteem and self-worth. We have to individually commit to or make a DECISION to cultivate and attitude of gratitude one day at a time starting today. 
Count your blessings, write it down in your gratitude journal. I am grateful for ……. my health, my life, my children, my home, my career, my spouse…..There’s always something to be grateful for!
Good morning

Forgive, succeed. 

A Vision can be defined as “imaginative conception or anticipation of a desired future state”- health, wealth, family, career, business etc
We are instructed in Habakkuk 2vs2 to WRITE (put to paper, pour out our innermost desires on paper) down our VISION, make it plain on a tablet (Vision board), that we may RUN (focussed forward movement) with it. Two key words are Write and Run.
In my own experience, I know for a certainty that i write better and clearer when my mind is at peace and devoid of any form of worry or anxiety. Our God given Vision requires a renewed mind devoid of past regrets , anger, bitterness, anxiety and unforgiveness.
The word RUN on the other hand can be defined as – “move at a speed faster than a walk. A body saddled with a heavy back pack can not move at speed, an overloaded car can not move at a fast speed. 

“Unforgiveness is like extra luggage we choose to maintain and drag around; the more we carry those battered bags, the heavier they get, tiring us out and slowing us down”
Girls, this implies that in addition to daily renewal of our subconscious mind, we need to individually throw of the baggage of unforgiveness to run towards our God given vision.

I have come to discover (enormous supporting research online) that unabated and prolonged anger, bitterness, unforgiveness is harmful to health – can result in CANCER
“Unforgiveness leads to Emotional Toxicity, chronic anxiety which produce excess adrenaline and cortisol, which depletes the production of natural killer cells – the body’s foot soldier in the fight against cancer. 
No wonder we are told in Philp 4 vs6-8 to be anxious for nothing, but in everything through Prayer and Thanksgiving (act of gratitude)…………. In addition its the will of God for me, you, all of us to give thanks in all things.
Girls , as we go into a new morning, new day, make a commitment to yourself and take positive action to: forgive yourself, forgive others and release this past, seek Gods face and ask for help from above, practice gratitude, change your thinking, change your habits , change your life.

Good morning.


Our individual daily practice of gratitude (first thing in the morning & last thing at night) “provides the soil in which we can plant our deepest desires”, helps us to focus on and hold on to what is good = positive expectations
“Gratitude is the antidote to negative emotions, its like white blood cells for our mind and soul, protecting us from cynicism, entitlement, anger and resignation”
Girls, gratitude makes sense of our past – enables us to forgive and release our past , a key requirement for straining forward towards our goals / our vision. 
A daily practice of gratitude results in a clear & renewed mind, enhances our networking ability, our positive decision making capabilities, increases our productivity and by default the achievement of our goals

A daily practice of gratitude will help us gain a new perspective on what is important to us, focus on what really matters and become more self-aware.
Have an unwavering blind faith, purpose, passion and vision driven day. Only good awaits you at every turn today because Gods thoughts towards you are thoughts of Good……..

Good morning

Get off your comfort zone 

“Only those that can see the invisible can do the impossible ” Frank L Gaines
“Write down the Vision (future outlook / desired state – my health, my wealth, my family, my career, my…….), make it plain on a tablet (vision board), that ye may RUN (forward movement outside my current COMFORT zone).
“Comfort zone- is a psychological / emotional/ behavioral construct that defines the routine of our daily life” – Abigail Brenner. 
Girls , we know that transition to a new life of abundance of health, wealth, love and happiness requires that we change our habits, change our thinking, change our daily routine and by default requires that we step away from our current Comfort zone
Good morning